When Dedication Is No Longer Enough: A Crew Member’s Story of Burnout

Anonymous testimony

I worked for Celebrity Cruises for ten years.
Ten years of steady career growth, commitment, and responsibility. Ten years of showing up, even in the most difficult circumstances.
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During the Covid period—one of the most challenging crises the cruise industry has ever faced—I stayed. I continued working on board, managing emergencies, supporting passengers, and ensuring operations continued under constant pressure, uncertainty, and fear.

In addition to my official duties, I was asked to coordinate assistance operations for passengers affected by Covid. This was a highly sensitive role that required organization, emotional resilience, and constant availability.
It was not part of my job description. It was an additional responsibility.
Still, I accepted it—as I always had—because I believed in my work and in the importance of stepping up when needed.

Carrying responsibility without support

At that time, I had a colleague who, on paper, was supposed to be my superior.
This person was hired directly into a higher position than mine, without having built a career within the company and without comparable operational experience.

Instead of receiving guidance or support, I was often left completely alone managing critical situations. There was no backing, no shared responsibility, no protection.
The workload increased, working hours became longer, and stress became constant. Yet I kept going, because I felt responsible—for the passengers, for the ship, and for the company.

Asking to grow—and being denied

After ten years of service, with no warnings, no disciplinary actions, and no negative records of any kind, I asked for something reasonable:
the opportunity to continue my career progression.

The answer was no.
A firm refusal, without clear justification—despite my experience, my role during the Covid emergency, and my proven dedication.

That was the moment something broke.

When you realize merit is no longer enough

You realize that giving more is no longer enough.
You realize that dedication is not always recognized.
You realize that in some systems, career progression is not based on merit, experience, or loyalty, but on dynamics that have little to do with the work actually performed.

Burnout does not happen overnight.
It builds slowly, when effort is met with silence, when responsibility is not matched by support, and when personal well-being becomes the hidden cost of keeping things running.

The aftermath no one talks about

After returning from my last contract, my body and mind collapsed.
Today, I am under psychiatric medication and in therapy for an acute form of depression.

This is the part that rarely makes it into official narratives.
The uniform comes off, the contract ends—but the consequences remain.
Burnout does not stop when you leave the ship.

Why I am telling this story

I am not writing out of anger or revenge.
I am writing because stories like mine are not isolated cases.

Behind the smiles and polished image of the cruise industry are crew members who work beyond their limits, carry enormous responsibility without adequate support, and are stopped precisely when they ask to grow.

Talking about burnout is not weakness.
It is accountability.

And perhaps, by sharing these experiences, meaningful change can finally begin

If you’ve experienced burnout while working on a cruise ship, please share your story in the comments below.
 
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I disembarked last week from a 9 months contract. Its my 3rd & the longest i've ever done. At present, i've been home for close to a week but i still don't understand my body.While on board[ around my 8th to 9th month], i was constantly tired. I seem to have this permanent waist pain that won't go away. I'm not writing this cause i'm upset or something. I only wish it could be made mandatory that crew members get 1 whole day off duty possibly twice to 3 times a month.
 
Cruise lines are corrupted. I worked on board 17 cruise ships of 9 various cruise lines. Unless you are among the top positions, your life is screwed. If you are a novice, all that holds you there is travel, then gradually you come to notice these monkey schemes and connections. You are evaluated solely on the like/dislike basis, and your professional appearance or experience does not matter at all. It is all about who they can sleep with or who they like. That's all. Dedication, honesty, experience, diligence.... everything's bullshit when someone dislikes you or you irritate someone, or when someone likes your girlfriend/wife. Cruise ships are corrupted, the management and all that miserable culture they pretend to instill are bullshit. The worst are: NCL, MSC, TUI (Meinschiff ships) and Cunard. Discrimination and bullying are all over the place in those companies.
 

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